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How to Live in Denmark

This podcast about Denmark is a favorite with internationals trying to figure out the unwritten rules of one of the world's most homogenous societies. Kay Xander Mellish, an American who has lived in Denmark for more than a decade, offers insights on Danish culture and advice about enjoying your time in “the world’s happiest country.” Kay is the author of the books "How to Live in Denmark", "How to Work in Denmark" and "Working with Danes: Tips for Americans."

Mar 24, 2024

A story I’ve heard over and over again when I talk to internationals working in Denmark is this: They thought they were going to get fired.

They’d been working for a year or so at professional-level job in Denmark, often one they’d been recruited for, but they’d never heard any positive comments from their...


Feb 6, 2024

Denmark’s doing a big recruitment campaign now, trying to get young professionals to bring their skills to Denmark, and a lot of them are single when they arrive.

If they want to meet someone and don’t meet someone, and if they want a serious relationship and a family but can’t get started, they often go home...


Jan 10, 2024

Many internationals newly arrived in Denmark struggle with the long Danish winter. 

The darkness that starts to fall in the early afternoon means that 5pm looks just like 8pm, which looks just like midnight, which looks just like 5am.

Dense, inky black sky.

During the daytime there’s a dim grey light, sometimes...


Dec 26, 2023

It’s almost Week 1, in the weekly numbering system that’s widely used in Northern Europe, where the year starts with week 1 and runs through to Week 52 or 53, depending on the calendar. It’s very efficient for planning, so you don’t have to say something messy like “What about that week that starts Monday June...


Dec 18, 2023

If you are an international who lives in Denmark, or someone who wants to, you have to learn the Danish way of dealing with conflict. This might be with a colleague, or your upstairs neighbors, or the authorities at the commune.

In these cases, it’s very important not to lose your temper or raise your voice. And this...